Monday, October 17, 2016

Fefe hake (How are you) ??? -- October 16, 2016

October 16, 2016

Hello Everyone!

Well my second week here was really good! I am growing to love this place a lot! It is so beautiful here, everything is always green and everyone is super nice.

I came up with a list of 10 things you need to know if you are going to Tonga:

1. You are going to sweat a lot! Just get used to it! Haha

2. Your feet are never going to be clean, but don’t worry, no one’s feet are!

3. Dogs are always going to bark at you, just give them some food to go away!

4. There is no such thing as a vegetarian in Tonga!

5. If you leave something out, someone will take it, they call it borrowing! Haha

6. You have to wash your clothes in a bucket and wash your dishes next to the toilet!

7. Little lizards and bugs are everywhere, there are always mosquitos too!

8. It is very disrespectful to not eat until you are full, even if that means the whole table!

9. It is very polite to sit on the floor even if they have a couch, but it is very disrespectful to sit on the floor if they tell you to sit on the couch!

10. Everyone will talk to you and everyone is related somehow here!

This week I had my first baptism! It was super cool and really exciting. His wife is a member and they have a little baby boy. He has always been Catholic, but he wanted to be baptized when the missionaries started teaching him. I got transferred here just at the right time I guess! My companion and I planned the whole thing and the whole ward came, all six of the families in the ward! Not a very big ward, but an amazing group of people!

We get fed every day here! Sometimes three times a day. We will walk by a house and they will yell at us to come in and eat. Haha Everyone eats on the floor sitting cross legged. It is hard at first, but your legs get used to it. The family will make a dinner for the whole family, but no one gets to eat until the missionaries are done, It is very humbling. Even if they don’t have a lot of food or money, they will buy us expensive food or make everything they have to feed us. It is very humbling. They like to say, "kai ke osi" which means eat it all, but they are perfectly happy if you eat till you are really full! The trick to eating a lot is to keep chewing and don’t think about stopping! This week I ate raw fish and horse, pretty delicious!

The ocean is very beautiful here! I live next to a bay, so there are no waves, but a lot of fisherman in the mornings and afternoons. This place truly is the other side of heaven! The kids here are so sweet. They love to follow me around and play games with me. They all call me "Hami" or "Palangi." Haha They love games, so I will always make up new ones. Their favorite is the slap game where you put your hands on someone else’s and you have to move yours really fast when they try to slap your hands. I always let them win! Haha

I love you and miss you all! I am doing good here, the language is hard to learn, but I am still progressing every day! I love that I get to serve here and be in this beautiful place, it truly is “The Other Side of Heaven!”

Ofa Atu,

Elder "Hami"









 

Malo e lelei from TONGA! -- October 9, 2016

October 9, 2016

Hello Everyone,

Well after eighteen-ish hours on a plane from Salt Lake City I arrived in beautiful Tonga! The airport is all outside so we got off the plan on stairs! Haha We met our mission president and wife; they are super nice! We went to the mission home which was like a twenty minute bus drive. Everyone here drives on the left side of the road too! The mission office is right next to the temple, so that was really cool also! I found out my area and met my new companion, his name is Elder Teutau. He is from Tonga and he is super nice! He teaches me a lot of Tongan.

The best way I can describe it here is just like a jungle! There are a lot of pigs and dogs and chickens that just run all over the place! Haha My area is right by the ocean, so we go see it every day. It is super beautiful here! It is so green compared to back home! All the people are super nice and friendly. I still have a lot of Tongan to learn, but a lot of people have told me my Tongan is good for being new, so that makes me really excited!

Our house is pretty small. All the missionary houses are small. It has an inside shower, though, so that is good. Haha There are a lot of members in the three wards that we cover. We get fed two meals every day and when I say meals, I mean a buffet! They want you to eat a lot of food here! Haha They are super nice, though, if one of the members forgets to feed us, someone always buys us food or brings us food!

We eat a lot of meat and manioke (tapioca), we mainly eat chicken and sometimes lamb and beef. We eat a lot of kapapulu and bread too. They have New Zealand milk here, but other than that, we drink bottled water with Kool Aid!  Haha We got to have ice cream with bread today, too, so that was really good! The food here does not have as much flavor as all the food in America does, so I think that is the biggest difference.

The people here are really nice. We have already done service and taught a few lessons. We already have a baptism this week and another one coming soon, so that is really cool. I don’t speak a lot of Tongan yet, so I mainly say the prayers and bear my testimony. My companion has to do all the talking. I feel bad, but I am learning a lot each day! We have a new investigator who we did service for. They had a tree branch fall in front of their house, so we cleaned it for them, hopefully they will want to listen to our lessons now!

We watched conference in Tongan. It was really hard to follow along, so I am glad I got to watch it in English last week! It was super cool seeing myself in the choir! Haha I showed all the people sitting around me! The churches here are really cool. It is like the size of a regular church, but there are no hallways; all the hallways are outside, so the church is like a lot of different buildings.

I have only been here for a couple days but I have learned so much about how much Heavenly Father loves his children. I have never met the people here, but I already love them! It helps to see the people as children of a loving Heavenly Father, not strangers. We had a lesson with a man who is about to be baptized and my companion asked me to bear my testimony. I didn’t know what to say, so I just started talking. It was really cool, in moments like that I just talk and I don’t think about what I am going to say. I definitely know it is divine help! When I was done he said he really liked it, so it made me feel really good.

Being in a new place and experiencing everything for the first time can be hard. I feel like a lot of us feel like that in our lives at one point or another. Sometimes I have felt no one really understands what I am trying to say or I can’t understand them, but I am always comforted to know there is always one person who understands me perfectly. That is my Fakamo'ui (Savior). I have grown to feel closer to him because he is the only one who knows how I feel right now and can help me. I would promise anyone that if they trust in Him and have faith in Him, he will guide them through any trial, obstacle, hard task, or difficult test. I know my Redeemer lives and it is his work that I am doing. I know He called me here for a reason and that gives me a lot hope for the future!

I love you all so much and I hope everyone back home is okay!

Ofa Lahi Atu,

Eleta Hami!











Malo e lelei from TONGA! -- October 9, 2016

October 9, 2016

Hello Everyone,

Well after eighteen-ish hours on a plane from Salt Lake City I arrived in beautiful Tonga! The airport is all outside so we got off the plan on stairs! Haha We met our mission president and wife; they are super nice! We went to the mission home which was like a twenty minute bus drive. Everyone here drives on the left side of the road too! The mission office is right next to the temple, so that was really cool also! I found out my area and met my new companion, his name is Elder Teutau. He is from Tonga and he is super nice! He teaches me a lot of Tongan.

The best way I can describe it here is just like a jungle! There are a lot of pigs and dogs and chickens that just run all over the place! Haha My area is right by the ocean, so we go see it every day. It is super beautiful here! It is so green compared to back home! All the people are super nice and friendly. I still have a lot of Tongan to learn, but a lot of people have told me my Tongan is good for being new, so that makes me really excited!

Our house is pretty small. All the missionary houses are small. It has an inside shower, though, so that is good. Haha There are a lot of members in the three wards that we cover. We get fed two meals every day and when I say meals, I mean a buffet! They want you to eat a lot of food here! Haha They are super nice, though, if one of the members forgets to feed us, someone always buys us food or brings us food!

We eat a lot of meat and manioke (tapioca), we mainly eat chicken and sometimes lamb and beef. We eat a lot of kapapulu and bread too. They have New Zealand milk here, but other than that, we drink bottled water with Kool Aid!  Haha We got to have ice cream with bread today, too, so that was really good! The food here does not have as much flavor as all the food in America does, so I think that is the biggest difference.

The people here are really nice. We have already done service and taught a few lessons. We already have a baptism this week and another one coming soon, so that is really cool. I don’t speak a lot of Tongan yet, so I mainly say the prayers and bear my testimony. My companion has to do all the talking. I feel bad, but I am learning a lot each day! We have a new investigator who we did service for. They had a tree branch fall in front of their house, so we cleaned it for them, hopefully they will want to listen to our lessons now!

We watched conference in Tongan. It was really hard to follow along, so I am glad I got to watch it in English last week! It was super cool seeing myself in the choir! Haha I showed all the people sitting around me! The churches here are really cool. It is like the size of a regular church, but there are no hallways; all the hallways are outside, so the church is like a lot of different buildings.

I have only been here for a couple days but I have learned so much about how much Heavenly Father loves his children. I have never met the people here, but I already love them! It helps to see the people as children of a loving Heavenly Father, not strangers. We had a lesson with a man who is about to be baptized and my companion asked me to bear my testimony. I didn’t know what to say, so I just started talking. It was really cool, in moments like that I just talk and I don’t think about what I am going to say. I definitely know it is divine help! When I was done he said he really liked it, so it made me feel really good.

Being in a new place and experiencing everything for the first time can be hard. I feel like a lot of us feel like that in our lives at one point or another. Sometimes I have felt no one really understands what I am trying to say or I can’t understand them, but I am always comforted to know there is always one person who understands me perfectly. That is my Fakamo'ui (Savior). I have grown to feel closer to him because he is the only one who knows how I feel right now and can help me. I would promise anyone that if they trust in Him and have faith in Him, he will guide them through any trial, obstacle, hard task, or difficult test. I know my Redeemer lives and it is his work that I am doing. I know He called me here for a reason and that gives me a lot hope for the future!

I love you all so much and I hope everyone back home is okay!

Ofa Lahi Atu,

Eleta Hami!





 
 




 

Monday, October 10, 2016

Fefe Hake? -- September 30, 2016

September 30, 2016

Malo e Lelei! 

Well I hope you all will be watching conference tomorrow! They are having a group of missionaries sing for the Saturday Afternoon Session and if you look really hard, you will be able to see me in there! 

This week has been the longest week so far. The anticipation of getting on a plane and flying to Tonga on Monday has made everything go by slowly! I am so excited to finally leave! I feel very ready to go and I am very excited to just become immersed in the Tongan culture! Last night our teacher showed us all his mission pictures in Tonga! They were super cool! It is about time to pack up all my pants and start wearing all my skirts! Haha 

Yesterday we had a nine hour meeting called In-field Orientation. In-field Orientation in the MTC, Haha, it is an oxymoron if you ask me! It had a lot of good parts! One of the most interesting parts was about working with members. It really opened my eyes on to how influential members can be in inviting their neighbors and friends to come closer unto Christ. Definitely something to think about in our daily lives!

I was so excited to get a package a few days ago that had about 92 notes from all my friends and family! I couldn't believe it, I was speechless! I feel so blessed and grateful to have so much support behind me! I have truly felt the power of having so many people believe in me and encouraging me!

Being District Leader has been a little stressful this week. A lot of the elders have been being more disobedient just because they are ready to leave! But they are a really good group of guys! I am super glad I was able to get close with all of them! I know they will all do great things in all the missions they are going to!

One cool miracle I had this week was that I was able to memorize the First Vision in Tongan in less than an hour! I have never been able to memorize things super well, but when I had accomplished memorizing the first vision, I knew I was receiving a lot of help from on high! My brain is starting to think in Tongan! Haha I’m sure you will be able to tell from my spelling! Tongan words are super easy to spell because it is spelled the way it sounds! The sentence structure is really different too: If I wanted to say "Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ appeared to Joseph Smith," it would really say "In the past appeared to Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ to Joseph Smith" It is kind of different. Haha But I love Tongan! The only way I was able to learn so quickly is because of how much I try speaking and pray for help. I think that is the key to learning any language!

A quick scripture thought I had for all of you is in 2 Nephi Chapter 32:4. The verse talks about how if you cannot understand these things or the gospel, it is because you asked not and you knocked not. I think everyone might be familiar with the scripture that talks about ask and ye shall receive, knock and it shall be opened unto you, but what does knocking really mean? We all have knocked on doors before. We knock on a door to see if someone is inside obviously. We only do this, however, because we have faith that there is someone inside. No one knocks on a door if they don’t believe anyone is on the other side. That is a big key when it comes to the gospel, having faith, and specifically, faith in Jesus Christ. If we ask sincere questions, with real intent to learn, and knock or having faith in Jesus Christ and that you will receive an answer, I promise the Holy Ghost will testify to you all things that you should know! (Moroni 10:5).

I want you all to know that I know this Church is true. I know that everyone faces trials, challenges, hardships, or just bad days, but we are never alone! There is one who knows exactly how each of us feels individually to a perfect degree. That person is Jesus Christ, and I know he lives. It is his work, and his glory, to save all of his children which he loves more than we can comprehend. He has always been there for me when I have reached out to him and I promise he will always be there to anyone who does the same! I love you all; I am so excited to share this adventure with you! I will go where he wants me to go and I will be what he wants me to be. I will say what he wants me to say and I will do his will with a heart sincere! Off to Tongan I Go!

Ofa Atu,

Eleta Bingham

A e Sipinga 'o Sisu Kalaisi -- September 23, 2016

September 23, 2016

Malo e lelei hoku kau famili mo kau feleni,

The weeks seem to fly by here in the MTC. I can't believe that I will be flying to Tonga in 10 days! The MTC has truly been a great experience. I have made eternal friendships here with my district. I know I was supposed to be here at this exact time in my life so I could be with so many great Elders! I had a lot of miracles happen this week; here are just a few of them.

My district this week has had what the MTC calls the "fourth week blues." It feels exactly how it sounds!  Our schedule here has little variety, so the days seem to blend together which can be discouraging at times! I was pondering on what I could do to get more energy and focus in my district as the District Leader and I felt strongly that we should study outside when we can! It has helped so much! We sit at tables, rocks, curbs, and most of the time just under some trees in the grass. We sing hymns in Tongan as loud as we can and it creates an environment where everyone can feel the spirit and feel joy! I think we all overlook the power of hymns in our lives!

We have two "investigators" that we have been teaching in Tongan. We teach one to two lessons a day without using any notes. If you don't think the Gift of Tongues is real, I am here to testify that it is! Just in the few short weeks I have been here, I have learned enough Tongan to teach lessons, talk to my friends, pray, bear my testimony, and teach other people Tongan! I love the Tongan language. It truly is God's language! The cool thing about Tongan is every word has a special meaning. For example, the word for the gospel is Ongo'ongo'lelei. When you break this word apart it literally means "The Good News". There is no word for apostasy in Tongan, so they use the phrase "Ko e He Faka'aufali Mei he Mo'oni" which translates to the great loss of truth. I am so blessed to be learning such an inspiring language.

As we were teaching one of our lessons this week, the lesson was going well as we were teaching about baptism. At the end of the lesson, our investigator Loupeti (Robert) felt really good about our message and knew it was true. I then asked him, in Tongan, if he would follow the example of Jesus Christ and baptize me! I said it wrong obviously! Haha We all started laughing! Those pronouns they teach in school become very important when you learn a new language! Haha

I had the cool opportunity of being the District Leader. It is very difficult at times. There are a lot of responsibilities and missionaries I have to watch over. One thing I have learned from it is that is always better to lead than to be in charge. The Savior taught this in his life and I now know it makes all the difference. My elders are more obedient and successful when they see me doing what is right, rather than when I try to make them obey the rules. I truly do believe that this leadership position was more of a lesson I needed personally than it is to help my district! By serving the people I am closest too, it opens the hearts and feelings of others who see your good example. I believe it is contagious to follow the good example of someone you feel a lot of love for, and that is how the best leaders lead.

We had the opportunity to hear from Brother Whitney L. Clayton. He is the President of the Seventy. He is such an inspiring speaker. His message was about how members don't truly appreciate how strong the position of our gospel is. Either it is true or it isn't. There is no middle ground. Everyone is able to know the truth of the Gospel. The gospel is true in Moscow Russia and in Moscow Idaho. It is true in the biggest of cities and the smallest of islands. There is no heart on this earth that is not capable of feeling the love of our Father in Heaven and which the Holy Ghost cannot testify of truth. That is the good news of this Gospel. Once someone really knows in there heart that it is true, their life changes. It is easier to have faith and it is easier to obey God's commandments. Even though we are all not perfect, when we know the Gospel is true in our hearts, we know that we will always be able to return home to that God who gave us life. I love the words of Moroni as he finishes the Book of Mormon. "And now I bid unto all farewell. I soon go to rest in the paradise of God, until my spirit and body shall again reunite, and I am brought forth triumphant through the air, to meet you before the pleasing bar of the great Jehovah, and Eternal Judge of both quick and dead. Amen." I can't imagine the faith he had in his life. He knew this gospel was true, and he worked his whole life to invite others to come unto Christ. And when his work was done, he was comforted in knowing he was returning home to his Father in Heaven. I pray we will all be able to know in our minds and in our hearts, that this church is true and that God lives, just like the great prophet Moroni.

I leave you all my testimony that I know this church is true. I know I am enlisted in the work of salvation, and Jesus Christ stands at the head of his work. I have felt his blessings and help in my efforts to serve his children who he loves more than we can comprehend. I know Jesus Christ is my Redeemer and he suffered so that I may have joy in this life. I testify he truly knows how to succor his people, because it is by his power, that I can speak Tongan and invite others unto him in a language I had never heard of three months ago! I pray for the health and blessings of all of you. I know the Savior has the power to sanctify us only when we love him and believe on his name. And it is in his name, even Sisu Kalaisi, Emeni.

Ofa Atu,

Eleta Bingham

P.S. I got this yesterday:

22 September 2016

Dear Elder Bingham, 

Malo e Lelei! We are happy to learn of your call to serve in the Tonga Nuku'alofa Mission. Thank you for your willingness to serve our Father in Heaven, and we look forward to serving with you. Your mailing address (for letters and packages sent through the postal service) while serving in Tonga will be:

Elder Brayden Bingham
Tonga Nuku'alofa Mission
PO Box 58 Nuku'alofa,
Tongatapu Kingdom of Tonga South Pacific

For letters and packages sent using other carriers other than the postal service (such as FedEx or DHL), the physical address is:

Elder Brayden Bingham
Loto Road Liahona,
Tongatapu Kingdom of Tonga South Pacific

Please advise your family and friends to include both your first and last names on any mail they send to you, as we can have more than one missionary with the same last name serving at the same time. Also label any packages with "LDS Faifekau."

It is a privilege and a blessing to serve a mission for our Father in Heaven. We invite you to come to the mission with full dedication of heart to carry out the work of the Lord during the time you are here. Your spiritual preparation is the most important part of what you do between now and your arrival in the mission field. We strongly encourage you to start praying and fasting now for those you will be teaching in the mission field. Your spirit and testimony are the most important attributes you can bring to the Tonga Nuku'alofa Mission. We recommend that you obtain and become very familiar with Preach My Gospel, and begin studying the lessons. This will help you acquire a better knowledge of the doctrines and principles of the Gospel. Your time at the Missionary Training Center will also be of great benefit to you in providing a foundation of specific skills you will use in the mission field. Since you will be learning the Tongan language, we ask that you start praying now for the gift of tongues. The Holy Ghost will help you teach the Tongan people in their native tongue if you pray and rely on the spirit. We will meet you at the airport. Be assured you will be well taken care of. We look forward to having you serve in Tonga. May the Lord bless you as you study, pray, and fast.

Sincerely,

Sione Fifita Tui'one,
President, Tonga Nuku'alofa Mission